Now, Prudie was nothing but a prim and proper woman, who gives high regard on moral values. So, what pushed her to almost do the unthinkable? Frustrations. She became frustrated with her relationship. She was frustrated with her hubby who seem to have neglected the need to connect with her.
Yet, all’s well that ends well. Prudie came to her senses. She went back home to her hubby. She pleaded him to read with her ‘Persuasions’. In the course of reading her hubby understood and rectified their situation. Thanks to Jane Austen.
If only things were not as complicated. If only Jane Austen has all the answers to our frustrations. But then reality is, every now and then we get frustrated. And Jane Austen and her novels are just but too good to be true. (And yes, I still love to read novels.)
We get frustrated when things don’t turn out the way we wanted. We get frustrated when we feel that the intensity of our emotion is not reciprocated by with our hubby. We get frustrated when there’s so many things to do yet we seem to zone out. We get frustrated when we don’t get appreciated for making an effort to please a loved one.
We can be frustrated with so many things. That is why, we should be cautious because, ‘frustrations are the enemy’s vehicle to temptation.’ Temptations are at strongest when we are frustrated because we are vulnerable and tend to think irrationally. Temptations are mostly subtle and deceptive. The bottom line is, temptations give the enemy the upper hand to manipulate us to sin.
We can not avoid circumstances to turn against us. Neither can we avoid that at times we get frustrated. Nor can we rely on any of Jane Austen’s novels to relieve us from our frustrations. But we can rest in the assurance of what Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
And when temptation seems to be blinking boldly, don’t just wait for the, ‘Don’t Walk’ sign. Rather constantly remember,